New Year resolutions

1st January 2010
New Year resolutions
1.To believe that I deserve what I want because the truth is you don't get what you deserve. You get what you think you deserve.
Be proud of yourself, of who you are. Respect yourself. Take care of yourself. There is no greater sin than self abuse.

2.To be happy, peaceful, funny, beautiful…to be me.
To be happy and peaceful I must do the right thing at the right time. I should be true to myself, fulfill the promises I make to myself. Be sincere towards myself. Be honest to myself. I must not lie, I must not cheat. I should remember who I am at all times. work hard, spend myself with the right attitude..keep a constant check on your thoughts and attitude..grow up,act your age,be responsible. Walk alone if you have to but never compromise on who you are, your priorities.
I must be good to others and help others whenever I can, without any expectations, because what I do defines me and what they do defines them.
Small people only want one thing from you:
Someone else to be as small as they are.
Stay big.
Protect your dreams. Dreams must be ground into bread and the bread eaten.

Stop judging people too harshly.
I must not lose my temper, keep my cool, and be patient. When I'm angry I will not be impulsive. Be focused inside, remember the promises you made to yourself, have faith in yourself.
Believe truly, surrender to it..have faith, trust God.

3.DO NOT BE LAZY. BE COOL BE DISCIPLINED. Plan and follow religiously, your work is your prayer. Do not postpone, it is a sin. Prioritize logically, recognize excuses, set smart goals and achieve them. do not discourage yourself encourage yourself constantly, inner motivation is the key. Envision success and work for it. do not ponder just do it

4.FINISH WHAT YOU START

Starting something great is easy but seeing it through is difficult. just stick with what you start, believe in yourself and do the right things. don’t slack, don’t get discouraged by anything, focus on doing the task well. execution of the plan is the most important. Dreams change the world, but only in dreams. there is no substitute for hard work/smart work.

5. Do not let the past discourage you.
Do not use it as an excuse to spoil your present. use it as a tool to make your life better. accept the experience without resentment or regrets. Mistakes have only one use in life, you learn from them. Have no regrets that you made them but under no circumstances repeat them again. Being perfect doesn’t mean you don’t fail it means that you keep trying until you succeed. Be smart and creative invent ways to dodge the mistakes of the past. focus on the present..its now, it’s your time.
Bullets that miss the mark travel just as fast…you missed once..you cannot miss this time.

6.Keep it REAL, don’t deny the TRUTH
1. You need a comfortable life, you need the money to travel, to write in peace, to live the life you want to. Work for it.
2. Are you committed to your dreams????
They don’t really care about you, you can find Him later. He is not here. Isn’t it enough, hasn’t it harmed you enough??? Your love life can wait, there are more important things at hand. You are at stake. Control the disturbances. Make the wait worth it.
Stop wasting your time and emotions on people who don’t care about you, in the end they will be nothing but distractions….stay away...you stay away, you don’t care ,it won’t hurt. You don’t have to save or change anyone. Grow up. Have faith, if it is so meant to be, he will come to you. Just one year keep the dream alive and safe but just keep it aside.
3.dont blame your circumstances. "I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become." Take control. Recognize the opportunity you have, recognize the potential. take what you have and make the best of it.
Don’t be so full of the things that you don't have that you don't have space for the things you do.

Don’t blame your parents. You are not your mother or your father, you are not your brother.
You are you, do it your way, do it for yourself.

Don’t blame your college or your teachers. Do it in spite of them, show them who you are , make them remember you.

4. Concentrate on inside, the outside can be managed. Don’t be shallow, and don’t care about shallow people. It’s just one year you can do all you want to do later.